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Friday, 4 February 2011

Let Be The Woman That He Can Be Proud Of!!

If you have a man who treats you right, loves you with no make-up and heels on, admires when you gain some weights (!), brings you to the park when you feel like to, well then what do you do for him? Ladies, we should treat our man the way he deserves to be treated and make him feel like he is A man!

Admire him
The number one way to get a man’s attention? Hurm, how? Actually, man loves to be adored and admired. Don’t be fake and don’t layer it on. But do be genuine and real and let him know how important he is to you. Compliment him on things he’s good at and his physical qualities. Tapi tapi! Be honest with it. Never ever do it when you don’t mean it.

Ask for his help
Man loves to feel needed! This is serious girls! Especially by their sweetheart. Ask him to help you do something or figure out the answer to a problem. Ask him to show you how to do something or to give you advice for a tough situation. He will definitely deliver for you! Man is unbelievable creature if you know how to handle them!

Be a good listener
Man may not be as talkative as woman is, but they still have things to say and emotions to vent or bad days they want to discuss. Learn to let him talk sometimes too! You’ll find that not only he will open up more to you, but he will trust you enough to talk to you about his feelings! Trust me! Lend him an ear when he wants to!

Believe in him
Did you know that a man can do anything if he has a woman who truly believes in him? And even if he doesn’t succeed by someone else’s standard’s he gave it his very best shot. Be that woman for your man! Be his driving force, his reason for doing what he does. Believe in him no matter what and he will succeed!

Do things for him
Do the things he likes! Cook his favorite foods, buy his favorite snack foods, wear the outfit he loves on you. Do little things he can appreciate. It will show him that you pay attention and he will fall that much more in love with you!

Don’t cut him down
Cutting down your man is the number one top way to make him feel like an idiot. Men have ego’s the size of Gunung Everest! Don’t discredit about his appearance, abilities or performances especially around others! Even if what you’re going to say is true, keep it to yourself and replace it with something good. Well enough said, they always want to be the best among the rest and hey, sometimes they can be such a weird when they think that whatever they say or do are okay and correct compared to what comes from us. That is normal. So, take notes and be prepared!

Respect him
Never overlook this important component! Respect builds the foundation of your relationship. If your man doesn’t get respect from you he may look for it somewhere else! The definition of respect in the dictionary is: due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights or traditions of others. Make sure you give your man the respect he deserves.

Well girls, recognize your man for the true man he is. Be the woman that he can be proud of! Your relationship will get better and better if you apply these ideas! Real men are few and far between these days so if you have one take good care of him! 

Credit to : Aisyah a.k.a julietdeorange


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